Yesterday I posted a pic of Tink choosing her meal from pictures on a menu. Its become apparent that she has tried to do this previously but the menus had no pictures so that choice was not available for her.
There is so much Tink cant do that removes choice from her. Which means choice and her being given opportunities to make choices extremely important and maybe ties in a bit with why she hates physical prompts, corrections and hand over hand because they remove her choice.
She needs to be given as much choice as possible and supported with positive reinforcement to make good choices.